We discussed this a longgggg time back in the regular forum but I want to know where females mostly stand with respect to this.
Sorry I don't believe in them, not to say that they do not work just not for me! I have friends who have had long distance relationships/marriages and some have worked out and some have not. It does work but it takes both parties to make it work. I mean I have huge trust issues. I can't trust a guys who lives 2 blocks from me, imagine one that lives half way across the country/world!
Discuss (especially the ladies)....men and relationship well...for them don't even put that in the same sentence...
"Har Duwa Mein Shamil Tera Pyar Hai
Bin Tere Lamha Bhi Dushwar Hai...Dhadhkon ko tujhe se hi darkar hai...Tujhse hai rahtein...Tujhse hai chahtein"...
LET'S GO YANKEEESSSS!!!
I have never had one and I dnt think I would be able to. When I was in India for a month and I hadn't seen my bf while I was there I thought I would go crazy so if I had to do it everyday it would be tough.
I have a few friends who have one and they are so happy. I also think it depends on the level of committment, if I know he was the one and a couple years later we were going to get married than I think maybeeee I would deal with it..
I'm not a female... but I think that it could work out if it was very serious and you would be able to visit the person sometimes. As for just the exploration part of life no it will never work out.
it takes a lot of work to make them work...and like shab said...you have to trust each other to make it work...mine obviously didn't lol i was right for not trusting him...so i don't think i'd ever get into one again...but i do like the part where you get to do your own thing and spend more time with friends and family cause your s/o isn't always around for you to hang out with...cause i get annoyed spending too much time with the same person
You really have to trust each other to make it work. we did that & it worked for me ….Yeah it was defiantly not easy being in long distant relationship. Specially…when I think about it now…..I always say, I don’t know how i did it .But at the end I am happy & that’s what it counts ... ..! :)
Originally Posted by shabnyc
I had 6years long distance relationship. I am married to that girl. We never-ever had any problem during our distance relationship. It was hard but we did it. We never cheated and We're proud of that. I personally think if you cheat on your guy or girl, you’re always carrying a burden. That will only end with your death. It does not mean that I am afraid of burden its about principle. Love only happens once. For few people love happens every other girl. (aaj pooja kal koi duja) that is not love.
For your quote about men and relationship in a sentence, trust me men takes relationship serious compare to women. It is proven that men are more sensitive than women; even in the show “Cheaters” they have showed that women cheats more than men do.
Of course it is depends on both the parties to have a long distance relationship, and it is based on the trust. If you have issue trusting a guy lives 2 blocks away from you, implies you don’t even trust yourself. How can you not trust if you think you love the person? How can a love happen without trusting anyone?
I don’t think we will have end or conclusion of this discussion but all I can say is it about trust, be positive about your relationship. Both the parties have to compromise on something. If anyone is not ready to compromise then end of love story, move on!
Peace.
^^^first of all....the 2 blocks away was an example....secondly kudos to your long distance relationship...third..."For your quote about men and relationship in a sentence, trust me men takes relationship serious compare to women"....I HIGHLY disagree...AND LMAO "If you have issue trusting a guy lives 2 blocks away from you, implies you don’t even trust yourself"....lol please explain this to me....i'm sooo dying to hear this...
"Har Duwa Mein Shamil Tera Pyar Hai
Bin Tere Lamha Bhi Dushwar Hai...Dhadhkon ko tujhe se hi darkar hai...Tujhse hai rahtein...Tujhse hai chahtein"...
LET'S GO YANKEEESSSS!!!
1ST of all thanks for the compliments, I also understand that why are you disagree. It could be from your experience or your thoughts. Well I have seen few examples in my life (not concerning me) of my friends getting their hearts ripped of by girls. Trust me they took ages to get over with it. I am sure Tina will agree with me on this, she has seen few examples.
About: “not trusting yourself”
You only start relationship if you trust the person. You have to trust yourself that he/she is the right person. If you cannot, I guess you don’t trust yourself that whether you chose ‘The One’ or not. Again everyone have his or her own opinion about relationship. I’m just trying to express my thoughts. I could be wrong.
Peace.
Me and Krupa are e-dating , so much easier lifestyle ..
:yikes:
About three years ago, my girl finished undergrad here and left for optometry school in Puerto Rico. I was sure it was the end of us, but honestly, I think we've become closer since she's moved there.
The most important thing is trust, but I believe if you continue to see each other often and talk everyday, it can work. At least in my case it has. She finishes up school there this Friday.
I can dance underwater and not get wet.
there you go, another long distance relationship.
As i said its all about Trust.
Good luck jabjab77 for future.
Peace.
it's not all just about trust...it's about attention or developing a closeness that's much harder to do when the relationship is long distance. For example start of a relationship that's long distance is much harder to establish then starting it off close and then it turning into long distance.
The attention you give new relationship in the begginning is important and sometimes i feel as though that attention can't be done when the person is nine thousand miles away...
the whole seeing each other for movies, going out for drinks, going to the mall...learning each others habits...its just not probable if you're not in physically seeing distance. I dunno, I'm not saying its not possible...i'm just saying it working out is generally not probable.
ehh just my two cents.
My significant other is leaving to India next week for a month....I hope I dont drive myself crazy with all them useless thoughts that run around our minds...
"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment."
For a month :yikes: Compare 6yrs. with that, LOL
Its just 4 weeks will be ok
Krupa, what are you talking about is important in relationship at initial stage, once you have established the relationship then it all depends on trust.
Peace.
no kidding....but if you can't get past the initial stuff you're def not gonna get past the trust issue.
"You only start relationship if you trust the person"....hmmmm I thought trust is something you earn as times go by...on a day to day basis....I never met someone who I said heyyyy I trust u therefore i'm going to date you or have a relationship with you...secondly "right" person?....how do u know that she/he is the right person....therefore how can u trust urself....lol
"Har Duwa Mein Shamil Tera Pyar Hai
Bin Tere Lamha Bhi Dushwar Hai...Dhadhkon ko tujhe se hi darkar hai...Tujhse hai rahtein...Tujhse hai chahtein"...
LET'S GO YANKEEESSSS!!!
abhi in ur case u guys seperarted after getting engaged right?
LaLa:- you mean engaged in relationship or engagement?
shabnyc:- I did not said that you judge someone in a day or a month. Obviously, you need to spend time together then you will know whether that's the person you are looking for or not.
Krupa:- Obviously,
What you're saying is a getting in to relationship. We are discussing more about once you are in relationship.
Peace.
You should be more worried about leaving him alone with me this weekend....loler
Peace
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